Why are some people so mean...

This is the first post I have done in almost two weeks because someone hacked my computer and destroyed all my files. I found out this was done intentionally and that it came from someone in the scrapping world. I have someone still trying to track who done this and heaven help you if I find out.
I don't understand who would want to do this to me... I never bother anyone or leave negative comments anywhere. I always try to be as accommodating as I possibly can to people and when I learn of a new designer or store I will go and say hi and buy something just to show my support. I try to fill request for kits that cannot be found anywhere else, usually dealing with the lost of a loved one. I am humbled by the wonderful people I have come to know, and I care deeply for other peoples feelings. I try to answer every email and offer to help in any way when asked. I guess I am just shocked that someone would want to try and destroy me this way.
I lost so many files that had not been saved yet or that I just never got around to saving. I had spent four weeks working on a request kit for a lady who lost her husband. She had not been taking it well and I wanted to make sure it was more special than any other kit I had ever done. I was going to save it to disk, I just had a few finishing touches to do and then was going to save that along with a few other request kits I was working on and now they are gone. I am more sad over this loss than all the other things combined.
I am working on re-installing all the files that I had saved to DVD but I lost so much and now I am just trying to figure out where to go from here. When you spend a year working on kits, elements, papers, alphas, etc. to use when you are ready for them, only to have them destroyed because of someones malice ways is a very hard thing to swallow. To have that backup supply gone that I spent a so long designing before I even opened my store takes a lot out of the desire to continue. I did not have the money to start over like this but if I wanted to be able to pay my medical expenses and help my family I knew I had to figure it out.
I have most of my old kits, freebies, etc. back on my computer but I am having to start fresh from everything else. I want to get back to offering freebies again and putting on new store kits as soon as possible so that I can get back somewhat of a normal life and start bringing money back in too help with the expenses. I have decided that who ever done this terrible thing is not going to keep me from giving my freebies to you and they are not going to stop me from selling my kits to make a little extra money. I may have to put in even longer hours that I already do but I will not let someone like that destroy my life.